I have a flirting problem?

This may come to as an answer that you do not want to hear, but it is the truth: self control... I know what you mean; you have a fun personality, probably kind of a tom-boy, right? This is what makes it easy for guys to hang around with you, the fact that you are like them with your perverse sense of humor... this is how men are naturally. Well that's where the "problem" is. If one guy is to make these kinds of jokes to another guy the possibility of sincerity behind the joke is completely disregarded; but when an attractive tom-boy girl makes these jokes the same way a man would, instinct kicks in and men want to believe that the jokes are in fact hints! So i'm sorry to say that unless you are sincere about the "jokes" you tell which are taken as hints, you will just have to make yourself learn that no matter how much you just want to be one of the guys and have your jokes taken the way you want them to be taken, that you will just have to explain to them that you are not hinting at anything, just being a fun girl to be around... hope that helps to kind of explain the male though process for you... i am one :)